Thought for the Week – 17th July 2016 – Dennis Pethers

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.  Hebrews 10:24,25

I remember, a couple of years ago, hearing a speaker at a large church in the United States making a huge statement.  He said that the church is unlikely to be successful in reaching people beyond the walls that we have built because:

‘Christians worship together but when they are on the frontline they are isolated and unsupported – ‘nobody has their back’ so they just try to survive not make an impact’.

I believe that he hit the nail on the head and that his words are too important for us to ignore.

After I heard this statement I began to introduce some very simple ideas to the churches and Christians that I visit and meet with.  Here are just a couple that may be helpful to you.

–       When the church gathers together on Sunday or in small groups, make time regularly, for people to share the stories of how they are seeking to tell people about Jesus.  This is encouraging to others and will mean that those who are attempting to reach others can be prayed for!

–       Each Christian should identify at least one other Christian in the church and become their ‘I’ve got your back’ person.  A simple way this can be expressed was shared with me by a lady who said to me:

‘Dennis, I did what you suggested and now a lady from the church and I are helping each other. We use texting most of the time. When I know that she will be talking to somebody about Jesus I always text her and let her know I will be praying for her. Later, she always calls me and tells me how it went. She does the same for me and it has changed everything!’

 

As long as we feel isolated on the frontline most Christians will never share their faith.  It is time this changed, please be part of the change!

Thought for the Week – 10th July 2016 – Dennis Pethers

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.  Hebrews 10:24,25

One of the things that I enjoy most about the ‘itinerant’ life that I live is that I have the opportunity to speak in so many different parts of God’s church in many parts of the world.  Almost every week I am speaking to a different group of Christians.  One thing that so many of these groups have in common is that, following the time of worship and teaching, they conclude with coffee and biscuits.

I have made it a habit through the years to eavesdrop the conversations that people are having over coffee. What I frequently hear are conversations about football, family, the weather, social occasions that are taking place….

I have not once heard a conversation about intentionally sharing the gospel with a person who doesn’t know Jesus.

I share this because I think it says something about our need to refocus on why we are meeting.  It is so easy to see Sunday Worship as something ‘in and of itself’ and not to connect this experience with the reality of our daily lives.  I think that the conversations that take place after the gathering reveal something of the intentionality of those that have gathered to worship.  Sadly this intentionality seems to have little to do with ‘Joining Jesus in His Mission’.

So here’s a suggestion –  Next Sunday, over coffee, why not talk with the people you are mixing with and ask them to pray for you as you are seeking to make Jesus known to somebody outside of church?

Thought for the Week – 3rd July – Dennis Pethers

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.  Hebrews 10:24,25

So how can we be effective in faith sharing ‘as we go’ through our daily lives?

 Something that occurred to me not long after I became a Christian is that as followers of Jesus we tend to worship God together but are left to evangelise alone.   We are part of a community when we worship but often completely isolated when it comes to sharing our faith.  The result of this is that many of us lack the confidence and passion to share our faith with people that we meet and spend time with.  Consequently, we say nothing even though we feel that we should.

 The writer to the Hebrews says ‘let us consider how we may spur one another on..’  A key point of meeting together is that we will use the time we are together to help, encourage and empower each other to be able to grasp opportunities for service when we are not together.  A challenge to this is that the way we ‘meet’ often as a large congregation (or small) means that there is seldom any opportunity for us to talk about our struggles/feelings as we seek to share our faith.

 Here’s something for you to pray about over the coming week:  

 ‘How could I, and the church that I am a part of, meet in ways that will spur us on to be effective when we are scattered?

Thought for the Week – 20th June 2016 – Dennis Pethers

Over the past few weeks we have been thinking about ‘faith conversations’.  Many of us feel really isolated and ‘on our own’ when we think about sharing faith and therefore don’t do it! So, for the next few weeks, I want to think about ‘How we as Christians can gather together in such ways that we can be effective when we are scattered and ‘on our own’.

The writer to the Hebrews wrote:

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.  Hebrews 10:24, 25

These words were written to Christians who were being persecuted for following Jesus and were feeling tempted to revert to Judaism because the Jewish faith was not the subject of persecution.

To people who were afraid and not brimming with confidence, the writer underlines the need for them to get together so that they will be able to encourage one another.  Being gathered together was not seen as ‘going to church’ it was understood as ‘being the church’ The primary purpose was so that they could help each other to keep following Jesus and making him known in a world that was hostile to the gospel.

My guess is that, as you read this, you are like those early Christians who first read this letter.  You are not brimming with confidence either!  Maybe you have prayed many times and asked God to make you bold and confident but it just doesn’t happen and now you think it never will.

You may not feel ready to start a faith conversation immediately so, rather than be discouraged, let me encourage you to do something you can do.

This week, why not connect with a Christian friend and ask them how you could be an encouragement to them as they share their faith.  It’s a start!

PS – my new book ‘The Rooftop – A Crisis of Opportunity’ is now available in the UK cost £5 + P&P  – If you would like a copy please email me.

Thought for the Week – 4th June 2016 – Dennis Pethers

This week I am again staying with this passage in Matthew.

When Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, “Who do people say the Son of Man is?” They replied, “Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others, Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” “But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?” Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” 

Matthew 16:13-16

When Jesus asked his disciples the question’ who do people say the Son of Man is?’ they had been following him for a long time.  Jesus was discipling his followers towards a real understanding of who He is and He knew that would be a long process.

Many of the people that we meet in our daily lives have no idea who Jesus is and will never find out unless we ‘disciple them towards faith’.  Again, asking and answering questions is a key part of this process.

I still have some hair and, on a regular basis, it needs to be cut so I visit the barbers and have my hair cut by Jim.  Over a few years I have been able to help Jim to have a very different view of Jesus than he had when we first met.  As a result of more conversations than I can remember Jim no longer thinks that all Christians are religious bigots or that the church is an institution that is disconnected from the ‘real world’.  He has become increasingly interested in the difference that a personal faith makes in a life and may even be interested in attending a church if he thought that the people there would welcome him bearing in mind ‘his life’. 

He has not yet ‘become a Christian’ but when I sit down to have my hair cut his first question is not ‘where are you going for your holiday this year?’ or ‘No work today?’  it is usually a question that continues from where we left off.

Sharing Jesus is an on going conversation.  Who can you begin or continue a conversation with this week?

Thought for the Week – 29th May 2016 – Dennis Pethers

This week and next I am staying with this passage in Matthew.

When Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, “Who do people say the Son of Man is?” They replied, “Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others, Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” “But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?” Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” 

Matthew 16:13-16

In the question that Jesus asked His disciples He was clearly interested in knowing who His followers thought He was.  Finding out what people already believe is a key part of the conversation that will enable us to begin to share ‘who Jesus is’!

Another favourite place for me to have conversations about Jesus is in a restaurant.  Most places where I eat the person serving will ask ‘how are you today?’.  My ‘answer’ always includes a question: ‘I am fine, how about you, how are you doing?’  On some occasions I receive the anticipated ‘fine thanks’ but I never cease to be amazed by the number of servers who immediately begin to talk about things that are going on in their lives.  Things like:  Family problems, often including serious illness affecting a family member or challenges with their children, struggles with study and work being too much for them, financial concerns, concerns about how the world seems to be getting so dangerous etc etc.  As the conversation continues I ask a  ‘question’ that includes a statement that goes something like ‘I am a Christian and I believe that God can be with you in the midst of these things – do you believe in God and would you be ok if I included you in my prayers?’.   I receive varied responses to the ‘believe in God’ question but I have never had a ‘no’ to the ‘can I include you in my prayers’.  Frequently this leads to more conversation, often interrupted because there are other people who need to be served, where the server talks openly about what they believe and I am able to answer their question when they ask what I believe’, I can talk openly about Jesus.

Are you planning to eat out this week? 

 

Thought for the Week – 22nd May 2016 – Dennis Pethers

 Matthew records in his gospel:

When Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, “Who do people say the Son of Man is?” They replied, “Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others, Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” “But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?” Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” 

Matthew 16:13-16

Jesus continually asked questions and, as I wrote last week, questions are a great way to engage in a conversation with a person to establish a connection and begin to build a bridge for a conversation about Jesus.

One of my favourite places to ask questions is at the gym I go to.  I think I am about the only person there that doesn’t have a tattoo.  So, frequently, as I am working out I am surrounded by people with the most fascinating body art and in so many cases what they have had ‘inked on’ clearly represents something or someone that is very significant in their lives.  My simple ‘question’ is always something like ‘that’s a fascinating tattoo – I am fascinated to know what it means’. 

Over the past few months this has led to my having on going discussions with a number of people and I have been told about such things as ‘a deep longing for truth but not knowing where to find it’, ‘a real concern for my two daughters as they grow older and I don’t know how to keep them safe from harm in a messed up world’, ‘I love God but I am not good enough to go to church’, ‘I am an atheist but I don’t mind you praying for my wife who is suffering from cancer’. 

These are just brief excerpts from a handful of so many conversations I have had about deep things in people’s lives and, on each occasion, the person has eventually asked me about what is important in my life – all this began with a simple question.

Tattoo evangelism may not be your thing but who could you begin a conversation with this week by asking a question that expresses an interest in their life?

Thought for the Week – 15th May 2016 – Dennis Pethers

In John 4 we read ‘Now Jesus had to go through Samaria. So he came to a town in Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of ground Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired as he was from the journey, sat down by the well. It was about noon.

When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, “Will you give me a drink?”

Seeing people as Jesus sees them is, I believe, a necessary step if we are going to connect with them and help them to understand the truth about Jesus.  However, there is another step, and many of us find this a real challenge – at some point we have to say something!

This ‘saying something’ becomes a real barrier to many because we don’t know what to say!  We try to get it all right in our head before we say anything and then, when it comes to it, we lose confidence and don’t say anything.

I have found that the most helpful way to know what to say is not to try to prepare it all in advance.  Rather, it is to follow the example of Jesus and rather than ‘say’ something – ask a question!  This does not have to be a complicated question, my favourite is ‘how are you?’  and then being prepared to listen to the response.

Over the next few weeks I will expand on this but for now, this week, why not approach a person that you know and simply ask them how they are and then listen!

Thought for the Week – 8th May 2016 – Dennis Pethers

When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd. So he began teaching them many things.  Mark 6:34

 We considered this bible verse at the start of last week but I feel that there is something so important here that I want to look at it again before moving on.

 The challenge that I find is that it is so much easier to look at people from my perspective rather than God’s.  When I do this I find that I can easily decide who I think I should share the gospel with rather than remembering that it is God’s harvest field and He invites me to accept His invitation to join Him in what He is doing.

 An evangelist in Johannesburg once told me how she prided herself on being an evangelist but, on one occasion, saw a group of people on a train that she didn’t approve of so, rather than sharing Jesus with them, she went to the to the other end of the carriage and prayed that God would save them! 

 This week, as you ask God to help you to see people as He sees them go a little deeper and ask Him to see them with the same compassion that Jesus had on the crowds that He saw.

Thought for the Week – 1st May 2016 – Dennis Pethers

When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd. So he began teaching them many things.  Mark 6:34

Over the past week I wonder if you have been asking Jesus to help you see people as he sees them.  It is very easy for us to just go through the daily routine, be among a whole variety of people but never really ‘see’ any of them.   They can just be a part of the background or scenery of our lives.

This verse in Mark is a great insight into how Jesus viewed the crowds of people that he was among – with compassion!

I was talking recently with a pastor friend of mine from Tennessee, we were talking about this scripture verse and I asked him what he thought the word compassion means as it is used here.  I found his definition interesting, he said:

‘Compassion means seeing their blindness and getting so close to them that they can see Jesus in us’.

As I thought about how I might say this I came up with: ‘getting alongside people and showing them the love of Jesus, just as they are’.

Among the crowds of people that are part of the scenery of your life through this week, who will you get close to and help to see Jesus?